flava, can you take a pic of it with the tube out and show the whole tube?. I think we all have a different tube (with a wide plastic stand on the base) your's looks like it is conical (pointy).
I think a hole in the mesh in a brilliant idea. Maybe cut a T shape into the mesh and shape it so the tube stays at an angel. With the base on the tube, you don't need a hole to keep it vertical.
on a side note: I switched from real milk to soy milk on my cereal and skipped my yogurt today. This is a big step for me as I've been reluctant to give up my yogurt. DH doesn't think we'll get pg this cycle on our own, but i'm working on getting clomid for next cycle, so I'll have some more time to do the diet too if he is right. If he is wrong, then our attempt will be in about 8 days.