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More on frequent BD that avoids ovulation

Since I've gotten some questions about the "frequent BD that avoids ovulation" timing method, I thought I would look a little closer into which charts that followed this pattern seemed to work best for girls.

 

Again, this pattern is defined as at least 4 BD times between 5 days prior to ovulation through the day afterward but NO BD on the day of ovulation itself. There were 58 charts with this pattern: 33 girl charts, and 25 boy charts, which results in a 56.9% preference for girls. (If you've been following this blog, you may have noticed that this is a different total than I gave previously. Yup, even though I double and triple check this information before sharing it with people, I'm still capable of goofing up and losing 11 charts. *sigh* At least the error is fixed now.)

- 1 day cut-off: 3 boy charts, and 13 girl charts (sways girl 81.25%)

- 2 day cut-off: 1 boy chart, and 2 girl charts (sways girl 66.7%)

- 1 day cut-off and day after ovulation: 17 boy charts, and 16 girl charts (sways boy 51.5%)

- 2 day cut-off and day after ovulation: 4 boy charts, and 2 girl charts (sways boy 66.7%)

 

What is obvious from looking at how the charts break down is that the charts that did not have BD the day after ovulation clearly favored girls (4 boy charts and 15 girl charts, favors girls 78.9%), and the charts that had BD the day after ovulation favored boys (21 boy charts and 18 girl charts, favors boys 55.3%).

 

Please note that I do NOT think this means that a cut-off and O+12 favors boys. As I've said before, the FF charts do not tell when ovulation actually occurred, so it's impossible to tell whether any BD times on them are O+12. I suspect that the reason there were more boy charts that had BD the day after ovulation is because in some cases ovulation occurred late on the day of ovulation and the BD happened early the next day and so the BD the "day after ovulation" was really in boy timing.

 

If BD "the day after ovulation" is avoided, frequent BD that avoids ovulation favors girls very strongly. Unfortunately, there are fewer than 20 charts with this pattern so the effectiveness rate is probably quite a lot lower than the 78.9% it is showing right now. However, despite the uncertainty about exactly how effective this timing method really is, I still feel comfortable enough with it that it is the one I plan to use in my sway.

Comments

 

babydust292 said:

thanks for the info!! This is the exact plan that I'm going to follow...tyring for a 2 day cut off, but at the very least...going to have frequent bd that avoids ovulation.  Thanks for all the research hun!

July 16, 2009 9:10 AM
 

eilamon said:

ya sounds good to me i was thinking of going with this all along but people  scared me off so i think im more confident now thanks x

July 29, 2009 2:47 PM
 

Chocolatelover said:

These may stupid questions but ... when you say "4 BD  times  between 5 days prior to ovulation through the day after.."  does this mean that they could have gotten pregnant 4 days or even 5 days prior ovulation?  I thought I read that can sway for a boy.  

Or do you think they were maybe BD 2x a day 2-3 days before ovulation?  And all of that BD is to help lower sperm count, right?  I

also read about abstinence to lower sperm count (like 2 weeks).  Is that only if you are doing O + 12?  Thanks for answering all my questions.  I'm still trying to understand.

August 3, 2009 2:49 PM
 

minervasmom said:

When people have frequent BD, you never know sure which BD time produced the sperm that "won." So yes, they could have gotten pregnant from 4 or 5 days prior to ovulation - and I agree that 5 day cut-offs favor boys. However, my guess is that the "freshest" sperm are more likely to win during frequent BD, and that egg is probably fertilized by a sperm from one of the more recent BD times. It's pretty difficult to get pregnant from a 4 or 5 day cut-off (though it is certainly possible to do so). But that's just a guess - there is no way to know for sure.

Some people who do frequent BD BD 2x a day some of the time, but with most of the charts I looked at, it was just once a day, every day or every other day. Frequent BD is just 50/50, though. My feeling is that it is wisest to limit frequent BD to within the 3-4 days prior to ovulation or to use protection if BD 5+ days before ovulation.

Abstaining for 7+ days does lower sperm count and favors girls. People typically abstain for a long time before O+12, but you can also abstain before a cut-off too.

August 3, 2009 3:14 PM
 

babydust292 said:

interesting...I always thought that the more days of bd you have before your cut off the better...I was going to bd from cd 7 until my cut off which might be anywhere from cd 12-cd16.

August 5, 2009 7:54 PM

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