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Gender selection? Most Americans just aren't interested.

Even if choosing your baby's sex were as easy as taking a pink or blue pill, most Americans would prefer to leave it up to chance, according to a new study. 

One of the main concerns usually mentioned by opponents of preconception gender selection is the possibility of upsetting the birth ratio -- usually under the assumption that since boys are preferred, too few girls would be born.  This is the current situation in China and India, where a cultural bias for sons is so strong that the birth of a daughter is always considered "bad news".

The study's authors point out that whether widely available gender selection could cause a sex ratio imbalance in the US "cannot be answered by intuition, but only by evidence," which is now provided in a survey of nearly 1,200 Americans. Here are the survey results (paraphrased by me).

If you could choose the gender of your first child, what would you choose?

39% Boy, 19% Girl, 42% Don't Care

This question shows a strong preference for a son as the first born. Because some studies on birth order have shown firstborns are higher-achieving (more likely to go to college than siblings, for example), some opponents of gender selection have argued that this preference could result in a "nation of little sisters".

However, although the survey results show this preference to be widespread, we don't know whether it is a mild or a strong preference. Is the desire for a firstborn son strong enough to result in the use of assisted gender selection, or is it merely strong enough to affect a survey response? Is it a passionate wish or simply a pleasant image of a big brother watching out for little sister?

As we'll see in following questions, even though Americans may express a gender preference, few are willing to take any action to fulfill that preference.

If you would like to have more than one child, what would you like your children's gender to be?

50% Equal boys and girls
5% Boys only
7% More boys than girls
4% Girls only
6% More girls than boys
27% No preference

Half want the same number of girls and boys, while nearly 1/4 preferred one gender over the other. But those with a preference were almost evenly split in preferring a boy or a girl, with 12% wanting only boys or more boys, and 10% preferring only girls or more girls.

Overall, 73% did express a preference for their children's gender, but again, few of them would be willing to interfere with nature to fulfill that preference.

Would you be willing to use artificial insemination to choose your baby's sex, if it cost $2,500 per attempt and 3 to 5 attempts would be needed?

8% Yes, 73% No, 18% Unsure

The majority would be unwilling to choose their baby's gender if it involved going to a fertility center, and undergoing 3 to 5 cycles of artificial insemination at a cost of $2,500 per attempt.

Only 8% were willing to use gender selection under these conditions. Although this is an excellent question for survey purposes, it probably paints a far too optimistic picture of the true state of gender selection technology, because it implies that you're guaranteed the gender of your choice if you're willing to spend a maximum $7,500 on 5 attempts. The truth is, it's likely to cost far more and there's no guarantee you'll get pregnant -- and there's still a chance of having the opposite gender in the end.

Would you be willing to use artificial insemination to choose your baby's sex, if it required only one procedure in your doctor's office and was covered by your health insurance?

12% Yes, 64% No, 24% Undecided

Even if gender selection involved only one doctor's visit, only 12% would be willing to take advantage of it. This seems to indicate that for most people, the unwillingness to use assisted medical gender selection is not due to its cost or inconvenience.

If you could choose your baby's sex by taking a pink pill or a blue pill, would you?

18% Yes, 59% No, 22% Undecided

And finally, even if gender selection required virtually no effort at all, only 18% would be willing to take any action to interfere with nature to ensure the gender of their choice, with the majority preferring to leave it up to chance.

The conclusion? Even if there were a gender selection clinic on every corner in the US, most Americans prefer to leave their baby's gender up to chance. And of those who would like to choose, about half would choose a boy and half would choose a girl. There seems to be little threat to the US sex ratio as the result of assisted gender selection.

Published Feb 15 2006, 08:47 AM by Maureen
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In 1999, my two sons were 4 and 2 years old, and we were ready to have another baby. I hoped to have a daughter, and I turned to the Internet to search for ways of increasing the odds of conceiving a girl. I discovered the iVillage Gender Determination Board. On the board, I found information about at-home and high-tech sex selection methods, but more importantly, I discovered I wasn't alone. I was one among a legion of mothers who longed desperately for a daughter, keeping it a secret so others wouldn't think, wrongly, that we loved our sons less, and feeling guilty becuse we're not supposed to care if a baby's a boy or a girl, "as long as it's healthy". There were, of course, also mothers hoping just as much to add a son to their all-girl family.

After a lot of research and soul-searching, my husband I decided to try MicroSort. In the fall of 2000, I became pregnant on our first MicroSort attempt, by IUI. At 20 weeks of pregnancy, we discovered we were having twins, a boy and a girl! We were thrilled to have a daughter at last, and a new son to cherish too.

During my journey to conceive a daughter, I was so grateful for the support and information volunteered by others on the boards; mothers who didn't even know me, but were willing to help me, hope for me, and cry along with me, when there was no one I could turn to "in real life". I know that without being able to talk personally with women who had tried MicroSort, I would have never gone through with this daunting, complex procedure; and that we would have never had a daughter as part of our family.

Now that my journey's finished, this Web site is just my way of giving some of that help back, to you.